ep 53 | stop forcing timelines - why letting go is your real power
Fri Dec 05 2025
In this episode, I dive deep into something I have been revisiting in my own life for years: what it really means to let someone go when they choose to leave. I talk about the breakup that pushed me to make one of my first viral videos, the fear and self consciousness that can come with being vulnerable online, and the moment I realized that sharing my actual lived experiences is exactly what helps people feel less alone.
I walk through the difference between “not ready” and simply not wanting a relationship, why begging someone to stay only hurts you, and how my entire dating life shifted the moment I started listening to my body instead of my anxieties. I share the lessons I learned from the men who left, the ones I learned to walk away from myself, and the very real spiritual belief that you cannot mess up what is meant for you.
I also talk about timelines, pressure, wanting partnership, and why settling never creates the life you want. I explain how I use my intuition as a guide now, what it physically feels like when something is not aligned, and why every dating cycle is just another loop on the coil inviting you to choose differently and grow.
If you’ve ever felt behind, confused, or exhausted by dating, this episode will help you feel seen and remind you that your life is unfolding exactly the way it is meant to.
If you have topics you want me to cover, please message me or leave a comment. I welcome feedback and love hearing what you want to learn, heal, or talk through with me.
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In this episode, I dive deep into something I have been revisiting in my own life for years: what it really means to let someone go when they choose to leave. I talk about the breakup that pushed me to make one of my first viral videos, the fear and self consciousness that can come with being vulnerable online, and the moment I realized that sharing my actual lived experiences is exactly what helps people feel less alone. I walk through the difference between “not ready” and simply not wanting a relationship, why begging someone to stay only hurts you, and how my entire dating life shifted the moment I started listening to my body instead of my anxieties. I share the lessons I learned from the men who left, the ones I learned to walk away from myself, and the very real spiritual belief that you cannot mess up what is meant for you. I also talk about timelines, pressure, wanting partnership, and why settling never creates the life you want. I explain how I use my intuition as a guide now, what it physically feels like when something is not aligned, and why every dating cycle is just another loop on the coil inviting you to choose differently and grow. If you’ve ever felt behind, confused, or exhausted by dating, this episode will help you feel seen and remind you that your life is unfolding exactly the way it is meant to. If you have topics you want me to cover, please message me or leave a comment. I welcome feedback and love hearing what you want to learn, heal, or talk through with me.