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The Selfish Woman

Val Jones
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The Selfish Woman podcast is for the high-achieving woman who's done everything right and it still isn't enough. Hosted by Valerie Jones - author of The Selfish Year, creator of the Queen Code methodology, and guide for women rebuilding after peak achievement - this podcast explores what comes after you've "made it" and realized the life you built doesn't fit anymore. Using a neuro-mythic lens, we explore the architecture of transformation: how to dismantle the performance structures keeping you impressive but empty, and rebuild your identity from sovereignty instead of survival. You'll hear conversations with powerhouse women navigating midlife reinvention: the partner questioning her pace, the executive who walked away, the entrepreneur choosing herself over her empire. This isn't about balance. It's about reclaiming your throne. Every episode asks: What if being "unapologetically selfish" isn't rebellion - it's remembering who you were before you learned to perform? Not self-help. Sovereign transformation through the Queen Code. Ranked #24 in Feedspot's Top 80 Badass Female Podcasts
Top 44.7% by pitch volume (Rank #22353 of 50,000)Data updated Feb 10, 2026

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Several times per week
Episodes
135
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Category
Self-Improvement
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Audience: Under 4K / month
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Cadence: Active weekly
Reply rate: 20–35%

Latest Episodes

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The Cost of Quiet with Colette Jane Fehr

Mon Feb 02 2026

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You've been swallowing your truth, avoiding conflict, and hoping things will change if you're just patient enough.  But your silence isn't safety....it's a slow death.  This week, I'm talking with Colette Jane Fehr, author of The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love, about why we stay silent, and what it costs us.  In this episode:  Why it's so hard to speak up (even when you know you should)  What to do when you get the same response every time you speak up  The curse of the good girl (and how it keeps you quiet)  How to get out of the Cave of Resentment  Self-connected communication: the framework that changes everything  The only way to build confidence (it's not what you think)  Your communication report card (we all have one!)  How conflict is the doorway to intimacy, not the end of it  Colette is giving us the tools to stop performing and start speaking.  Because the cost of quiet? It's your life.  Pre-order The Cost of Quiet here Follow Collete on Instagram  My Substack article, and free quiz: Reveal Your Mask

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You've been swallowing your truth, avoiding conflict, and hoping things will change if you're just patient enough.  But your silence isn't safety....it's a slow death.  This week, I'm talking with Colette Jane Fehr, author of The Cost of Quiet: How to Have the Hard Conversations That Create Secure, Lasting Love, about why we stay silent, and what it costs us.  In this episode:  Why it's so hard to speak up (even when you know you should)  What to do when you get the same response every time you speak up  The curse of the good girl (and how it keeps you quiet)  How to get out of the Cave of Resentment  Self-connected communication: the framework that changes everything  The only way to build confidence (it's not what you think)  Your communication report card (we all have one!)  How conflict is the doorway to intimacy, not the end of it  Colette is giving us the tools to stop performing and start speaking.  Because the cost of quiet? It's your life.  Pre-order The Cost of Quiet here Follow Collete on Instagram  My Substack article, and free quiz: Reveal Your Mask

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Pitches sent
15
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Rank
#22353
Top 44.7% by pitch volume (Rank #22353 of 50,000)
Average rating
4.9
From 19 ratings
Reviews
9
Written reviews (when available)
Publish cadence
Several times per week
Active weekly
Episode count
135
Data updated
Feb 10, 2026
Social followers
120.1K

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Country
United States
Language
English
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Release cadence
Several times per week
Latest episode date
Mon Feb 02 2026

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30+ days
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Replies received
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120.1K
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Frequently Asked Questions About The Selfish Woman

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What is The Selfish Woman about?

The Selfish Woman podcast is for the high-achieving woman who's done everything right and it still isn't enough. Hosted by Valerie Jones - author of The Selfish Year, creator of the Queen Code methodology, and guide for women rebuilding after peak achievement - this podcast explores what comes after you've "made it" and realized the life you built doesn't fit anymore. Using a neuro-mythic lens, we explore the architecture of transformation: how to dismantle the performance structures keeping you impressive but empty, and rebuild your identity from sovereignty instead of survival. You'll hear conversations with powerhouse women navigating midlife reinvention: the partner questioning her pace, the executive who walked away, the entrepreneur choosing herself over her empire. This isn't about balance. It's about reclaiming your throne. Every episode asks: What if being "unapologetically selfish" isn't rebellion - it's remembering who you were before you learned to perform? Not self-help. Sovereign transformation through the Queen Code. Ranked #24 in Feedspot's Top 80 Badass Female Podcasts

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