The Urban Monk podcast with Dr. Pedram Shojai

🎙️ In this Lights On course coaching session, Dr. Pedram Shojai guides students through week three: interoceptive awareness training. Most people have been trained their entire lives to ignore their bodies—overriding tiredness with caffeine, hunger with schedules, and pain with pills. This disconnection means missing early warning signs before they become injuries or burnout, and struggling with emotional regulation. Dr. Shojai breaks down the eight dimensions of internal awareness and explains that emotions are your brain's interpretation of body states—when you can sense your heart racing and chest tightening, you can regulate the physiology instead of spiraling into panic. 🎯 What You'll Learn: The 8 Dimensions of Internal Awareness: cardiac (feel heartbeat?), respiratory (sense breath moving?), gastric (true hunger vs boredom?), elimination (sense fullness without ignoring?), muscular (holding tension?), vascular (sense blood flow?), temperature (feel internal heat/coolness?), pain/inflammation (read discomfort?) Why emotional regulation requires interoception: Antonio Damasio's research shows emotions are your brain's interpretation of body states—anxiety is rapid heartbeat + shallow breathing + chest tightness + shoulder tension + stomach churning + cold hands The Four Common Blocks: dissociation (trauma-based nervous system disconnect), alexithymia (difficulty identifying emotions—trainable as adult), chronic stress (stuck in fight-or-flight), Western "mind over matter" conditioning The Two Dimensions of Interoceptive Skill: accuracy (correctly perceive what's happening) and sensitivity (appropriate attention without overwhelm)—goal is high accuracy with appropriate sensitivity 🔑 Key Insights: "We treat bodies like separate vehicles we're driving rather than integrated systems. The cost: missing early warning signs, inability to regulate emotions, poor decision-making—gut feelings are interoceptive signals." "If you can't feel emotions in your body, they just happen to you. When you can sense 'chest is tight, heart is racing,' you can identify emotions accurately, regulate by shifting physiology, and respond instead of react. This is the core of emotional intelligence." "Interoception is trainable—it's a life skill that develops with practice. Some days clear, some days foggy (perfectly normal). Practice isn't about perfection—it's about repeatedly turning awareness inward." 💡 Action Steps: Practice mini check-ins throughout the day: morning body scan before touching phone, check hunger level 1-10 before eating, notice fullness after eating, ask 3x daily "Where am I at? What am I feeling physically?", evening body scan before bed Use the 8-dimension body scan: systematically scan cardiac, respiratory, gastric, elimination, muscular, vascular, temperature, and pain/inflammation awareness Try heartbeat detection meditation for cardiac awareness training—build the skill of feeling your heartbeat in chest, not just neck or fingertips 🎧 Perfect for: Anyone who overrides body signals with caffeine or schedules, people struggling with emotional regulation or identifying what they're feeling, those who miss early warning signs (aches become injuries, stress becomes burnout), trauma survivors experiencing dissociation, or anyone who can't distinguish hunger from boredom or fatigue from depression. 📚 Mentioned Resources: Lights On Course (Week 3: Interoception module) Antonio Damasio's research on emotions as body state interpretations 3-2-1 Reset meditation Inner landscape practice audio Heartbeat detection meditation Eating awareness audio 🌐 Connect with Dr. Shojai: Website: theurbanmonk.com Books: The Urban Monk, Inner Alchemy, The Art of Stopping Time, Focus Documentaries: Interconnected, Gateway to Health, Trauma, Conscious Parenting #Interoception #BodyAwareness #EmotionalIntelligence #MindBodyConnection #InteroceptiveAwareness #NervousSystemRegulation #MeditationPractice #FunctionalMedicine #EmotionalRegulation #TraumaHealing #Mindfulness #Consciousness #UrbanMonk #Wellness