E317 - Why This Attraction Feels Right — But Will Hurt You
Sun Feb 01 2026
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Attraction is a beautiful thing. We all desire it.
We all want to feel pulled toward someone.
Attraction is often what brings people together in the first place.
It gives relationships energy.
Yet, there are moments, where attraction suddenly becomes… dangerous.
Maybe you’re already in a relationship.
Maybe you’ve built a life with someone toxic.
And yet there is this pull toward a person you'd be better off not being attracted to.
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Anxious Attachment Video: https://youtu.be/rXscvYntSpY?si=vTxyvwzQS-xfYEXZ
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► Episode Timestamps:
00:00 Sirens and Sailors
02:20 Why We’re Hearing The Call
05:00 Solution: How To Not Fall For The Temptation
06:10 Final Thoughts
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► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education.
I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.
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► Start Our Premium Course Trial: https://understandable.net/ (Ad) ► Download the Free Workbook full of Re-Regulation Resources & Writing techniques: https://understandable.net/book/ (Ad) Attraction is a beautiful thing. We all desire it. We all want to feel pulled toward someone. Attraction is often what brings people together in the first place. It gives relationships energy. Yet, there are moments, where attraction suddenly becomes… dangerous. Maybe you’re already in a relationship. Maybe you’ve built a life with someone toxic. And yet there is this pull toward a person you'd be better off not being attracted to. ► Links and Resources: Limerence Video: https://youtu.be/cZ344b-d7DA?si=zE93uPeP9YjIRcSW Anxious Attachment Video: https://youtu.be/rXscvYntSpY?si=vTxyvwzQS-xfYEXZ ► Subscribe On Your Favorite Platform! YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCGiJdF0yeTyRJanW_uSICDw?sub_confirmation=1 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2gaheQLxBwByM9txVzlpI6 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/understandable/id1399616905 Amazon Music: https://music.amazon.de/podcasts/ee3580cb-61c5-4aa1-9ad4-1204014078e7/understandable ► Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Sirens and Sailors 02:20 Why We’re Hearing The Call 05:00 Solution: How To Not Fall For The Temptation 06:10 Final Thoughts ► Reach Out To Me :) E-Mail: info@understandable.net ► Hi, my name is Robert! I create videos about childhood trauma & attachment theory. My content aims to help you transform trauma-driven reactions that block you, so you can embrace a life full of happiness, safe & loving relationships, and self-confidence. :) ► Disclaimer: None of the contents are therapeutic or medical recommendations. The contents are not to be understood as therapeutic-medical instructions and are neither intended as professional health advice nor as education. I am not a health professional myself. My content is based on research and my personal experiences working with various therapists as a client for three years.