Ep 169: Birthdays and Weight Loss for Fertility
Tue Feb 03 2026
Oh, birthdays.
They’re supposed to be sprinkled with confetti and wrapped up in joyful celebration 🎉
But when you’re in the throes of fertility treatments and striving toward weight loss, sometimes that “special day” feels more like an unwanted reminder than a reason to party.
Here’s the truth: When the candles come out, you can be grateful for the celebration and tender about what you’re missing—both at the same time.
Here’s how you can honor yourself on your birthday, even when it feels complicated:
No Judgment Zone – Let’s drop the guilt about whatever you feel. Want a big bash? Fabulous! Want to hang out in jammies and avoid the world? Also perfect. You get to choose what feels right—even if it surprises you.
Ask What You Really Want – Take a moment to check in. Sometimes, what you crave most isn’t the party or the presents, but the essence of connection, adventure, or a little TLC.
Practice Self-Honoring – Whether you’re planning an exotic getaway or dreaming of a quiet afternoon, listen to what your heart is saying. That’s the first step toward giving yourself what you need—today, and all the birthdays to come.
You deserve to be celebrated, just as you are—messy feelings and all. So, this year, ask yourself: “What do I want?” Honor the answer, without judgment. Let the spirit of your wish shine through, whatever form it takes.
Happy birthday, Sweet One.
Whenever that may be.
Links:
Click the links below to lose weight now, the Weight Loss for Fertility way:
Website - stephaniefeinmd.com - Facebook - Instagram - LinkedIn
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Oh, birthdays. They’re supposed to be sprinkled with confetti and wrapped up in joyful celebration 🎉 But when you’re in the throes of fertility treatments and striving toward weight loss, sometimes that “special day” feels more like an unwanted reminder than a reason to party. Here’s the truth: When the candles come out, you can be grateful for the celebration and tender about what you’re missing—both at the same time. Here’s how you can honor yourself on your birthday, even when it feels complicated: No Judgment Zone – Let’s drop the guilt about whatever you feel. Want a big bash? Fabulous! Want to hang out in jammies and avoid the world? Also perfect. You get to choose what feels right—even if it surprises you. Ask What You Really Want – Take a moment to check in. Sometimes, what you crave most isn’t the party or the presents, but the essence of connection, adventure, or a little TLC. Practice Self-Honoring – Whether you’re planning an exotic getaway or dreaming of a quiet afternoon, listen to what your heart is saying. That’s the first step toward giving yourself what you need—today, and all the birthdays to come. You deserve to be celebrated, just as you are—messy feelings and all. So, this year, ask yourself: “What do I want?” Honor the answer, without judgment. Let the spirit of your wish shine through, whatever form it takes. Happy birthday, Sweet One. Whenever that may be. Links: Click the links below to lose weight now, the Weight Loss for Fertility way: Website - stephaniefeinmd.com - Facebook - Instagram - LinkedIn