33. Keeping It Hot: How to Create Novelty in Monogamy with Dr. Diane Mueller
Mon May 26 2025
Monogamy doesn’t have to mean monotony.
In today’s juicy conversation, I’m joined by the radiant Dr. Diane Mueller—board-certified sexologist, dual-doctorate in Naturopathic and Oriental Medicine, and the founder of MyLibidoDoc.com. With a perfect blend of science and soul, Dr. Diane unpacks the real reasons desire fades in long-term relationships—and how to turn the heat way back on.
We go deep into the truth behind low libido—for both women and men—and explore:
💋 The three root causes of low sex drive: physical, personal, and relational
🔥 Why novelty is essential to erotic desire—and how to infuse it into monogamy
🧠 The neuroscience of attraction (and how to work with your brain, not against it)
💡 Creative, non-intimidating ways to spark intimacy and excitement again
🗣️ Erotic communication: how to talk about sex in ways that build closeness, not conflict
Whether you’re craving more pleasure, better sex, or just a deeper connection with your partner, this episode is your permission slip to explore, express, and ignite.
✨ FREE GIFTS + RESOURCES:
Dr. Diane is generously offering a treasure trove of free tools to support your sensual evolution:
💫 The Libido Jumpstart Course – A 4-day fast guide to better sex, more pleasure, and deeper connection.
👉 Start here: MyLibidoDoc.com/ignite
💫 The Freebie Library – Take the Libido Quiz, unlock your unique Libido Code (and your partner’s), or grab your free copy of Revive Your Love: 5 Steps to Mindblowing Orgasms and Romance.
👉 Explore it all at: MyLibidoDoc.com/freebies
💫 Watch on YouTube – Straight talk on sex, desire, anatomy and more—no shame, just science and soul.
👉 Subscribe here: YouTube.com/@MyLibidoDoc
Because soulmate love deserves soul-deep passion.
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Monogamy doesn’t have to mean monotony. In today’s juicy conversation, I’m joined by the radiant Dr. Diane Mueller—board-certified sexologist, dual-doctorate in Naturopathic and Oriental Medicine, and the founder of MyLibidoDoc.com. With a perfect blend of science and soul, Dr. Diane unpacks the real reasons desire fades in long-term relationships—and how to turn the heat way back on. We go deep into the truth behind low libido—for both women and men—and explore: 💋 The three root causes of low sex drive: physical, personal, and relational 🔥 Why novelty is essential to erotic desire—and how to infuse it into monogamy 🧠 The neuroscience of attraction (and how to work with your brain, not against it) 💡 Creative, non-intimidating ways to spark intimacy and excitement again 🗣️ Erotic communication: how to talk about sex in ways that build closeness, not conflict Whether you’re craving more pleasure, better sex, or just a deeper connection with your partner, this episode is your permission slip to explore, express, and ignite. ✨ FREE GIFTS + RESOURCES: Dr. Diane is generously offering a treasure trove of free tools to support your sensual evolution: 💫 The Libido Jumpstart Course – A 4-day fast guide to better sex, more pleasure, and deeper connection. 👉 Start here: MyLibidoDoc.com/ignite 💫 The Freebie Library – Take the Libido Quiz, unlock your unique Libido Code (and your partner’s), or grab your free copy of Revive Your Love: 5 Steps to Mindblowing Orgasms and Romance. 👉 Explore it all at: MyLibidoDoc.com/freebies 💫 Watch on YouTube – Straight talk on sex, desire, anatomy and more—no shame, just science and soul. 👉 Subscribe here: YouTube.com/@MyLibidoDoc Because soulmate love deserves soul-deep passion.