119. You Were Made to Love and You Were Made to Feel
Sun Feb 08 2026
to remain tender is a gift.
this episode is an exploration of everything i've learned about love.
put simply:
"we have all known the bliss of sunshine hitting our skin on a cold day, and we have all belly laughed until our breaths disappeared, and we have all come home chewed up by the world and sunken deep into a familiar withering, and we are all either healing from something or learning how to hold it, running from something or learning how to return - because we have all loved and we have all lost, and we have all mistaken losing for a promise that it was never safe to love. and we have all been wrong about that."
- from my essay "let me remember you" which you can read here on my Substack
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to remain tender is a gift. this episode is an exploration of everything i've learned about love. put simply: "we have all known the bliss of sunshine hitting our skin on a cold day, and we have all belly laughed until our breaths disappeared, and we have all come home chewed up by the world and sunken deep into a familiar withering, and we are all either healing from something or learning how to hold it, running from something or learning how to return - because we have all loved and we have all lost, and we have all mistaken losing for a promise that it was never safe to love. and we have all been wrong about that." - from my essay "let me remember you" which you can read here on my Substack -- LAST WEEK to Sign up HERE for the FREE Heart-Healing 10-Day Challenge co-hosted with CURE Hydration - starting MONDAY, 2.16. Sign up for the mailing list 3 - you get a free energy protection meditation when you sign up! Socials: IG: @byvanessafontana TIKTOK: @butterflyfountain Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/figuring-sht-out/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy