110. What Recovery Actually Looks Like from Nervous System Based Pain & Illness
Tue Feb 03 2026
There's a myth that recovery means waking up one day and never having symptoms again—that once the nervous system is "healed," pain and discomfort just stop. But holding onto that belief can actually keep the body stuck in vigilance mode.
In this episode, Grace explores what recovery really looks like after years of chronic symptoms. She shares her own recent experience with a painful neck flare-up and how she moved through it without spiraling or letting it derail her life. This is the honest, grounded version of healing that often goes unspoken.
Grace discusses why the expectation of perfect healing creates more pressure in the body, how time-based goals can work against progress, and what it means when care becomes intuitive rather than rigid. She offers a powerful reframe: recovery isn't the absence of sensation—it's the absence of fear. The goal isn't protecting yourself from life, but building the capacity to fully live it.
Resources from Grace:
Mind-Body Healing Method Course - Regulate your nervous system now Work with me in therapy or coaching Subscribe to my Substack for the deeper how-to's Download the FreeMe app for chronic fatigue FREE Nervous System Tracking Workbook Connect with Grace
Connect on Instagram Check out my website
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There's a myth that recovery means waking up one day and never having symptoms again—that once the nervous system is "healed," pain and discomfort just stop. But holding onto that belief can actually keep the body stuck in vigilance mode. In this episode, Grace explores what recovery really looks like after years of chronic symptoms. She shares her own recent experience with a painful neck flare-up and how she moved through it without spiraling or letting it derail her life. This is the honest, grounded version of healing that often goes unspoken. Grace discusses why the expectation of perfect healing creates more pressure in the body, how time-based goals can work against progress, and what it means when care becomes intuitive rather than rigid. She offers a powerful reframe: recovery isn't the absence of sensation—it's the absence of fear. The goal isn't protecting yourself from life, but building the capacity to fully live it. Resources from Grace: Mind-Body Healing Method Course - Regulate your nervous system now Work with me in therapy or coaching Subscribe to my Substack for the deeper how-to's Download the FreeMe app for chronic fatigue FREE Nervous System Tracking Workbook Connect with Grace Connect on Instagram Check out my website