Why Successful Men Struggle in Dating | Confidence, Emotional Intelligence with Dan Aguilera
Fri Feb 06 2026
In this episode of Ignite Your Power, Kathy Mou sits down with dating coach Dan Aguilera, who specializes in helping single male entrepreneurs break free from negative dating cycles and create meaningful, healthy relationships.
Dan shares his personal journey of overcoming insecurity, building emotional intelligence, and learning the importance of self-love, boundaries, and authentic communication. Together, we dive into the realities of modern dating, the pressure and expectations placed on men, and why high-achieving entrepreneurs often struggle in relationships despite success in their careers.
This episode is packed with practical tools and mindset shifts to help men build confidence, embrace vulnerability, and form deeper, more aligned connections—without losing focus on their professional goals.
✨ In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why successful men often feel stuck in dating
How emotional intelligence transforms attraction and connection
The role of self-love and boundaries in healthy relationships
How to communicate authentically without fear or burnout
Actionable steps to build confidence and break negative dating patterns
Whether you’re navigating modern dating, working on personal growth, or seeking deeper relationships, this conversation will empower you to lead with authenticity and confidence.
🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it.
💫 Want deeper clarity and guidance?
Book a numerology or card reading session with Kathy Mou to gain insight into your personal and professional path.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Dating Mastery
01:54 Dan's Personal Journey and Motivation
06:06 Understanding the Negative Connotations of Dating
11:08 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
17:43 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges
22:55 Building Authentic Confidence
28:53 Communicating Authentically in Relationships
33:16 Client Success Stories and Transformations
36:34 Actionable Steps for Men in Dating
40:38 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4
41:22 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4
41:33 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4
41:45 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4
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In this episode of Ignite Your Power, Kathy Mou sits down with dating coach Dan Aguilera, who specializes in helping single male entrepreneurs break free from negative dating cycles and create meaningful, healthy relationships. Dan shares his personal journey of overcoming insecurity, building emotional intelligence, and learning the importance of self-love, boundaries, and authentic communication. Together, we dive into the realities of modern dating, the pressure and expectations placed on men, and why high-achieving entrepreneurs often struggle in relationships despite success in their careers. This episode is packed with practical tools and mindset shifts to help men build confidence, embrace vulnerability, and form deeper, more aligned connections—without losing focus on their professional goals. ✨ In this episode, you’ll learn: Why successful men often feel stuck in dating How emotional intelligence transforms attraction and connection The role of self-love and boundaries in healthy relationships How to communicate authentically without fear or burnout Actionable steps to build confidence and break negative dating patterns Whether you’re navigating modern dating, working on personal growth, or seeking deeper relationships, this conversation will empower you to lead with authenticity and confidence. 🔔 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs it. 💫 Want deeper clarity and guidance? Book a numerology or card reading session with Kathy Mou to gain insight into your personal and professional path. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dating Mastery 01:54 Dan's Personal Journey and Motivation 06:06 Understanding the Negative Connotations of Dating 11:08 The Importance of Emotional Intelligence 17:43 Navigating Modern Dating Challenges 22:55 Building Authentic Confidence 28:53 Communicating Authentically in Relationships 33:16 Client Success Stories and Transformations 36:34 Actionable Steps for Men in Dating 40:38 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4 41:22 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4 41:33 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4 41:45 Youtube Outro End Screen.mp4 ______________________________________________________________ Book a Numerology Guidance Card Reading to get a personalized card reading and coaching from me. Book here: https://www.kathymou.com/offers/tvy2j... Book a 1:1 to tap into your resilience, mental health and to empower yourself, so you can manifest your true desires. Book here: https://www.kathymou.com/offers/BMkcB... Download my FREE Empowerment JournalWorkbook: https://www.kathymou.com/empowerment-... I created this FREE Empowerment Journal to help you up-level your mindset, and get clear on your blocks so you can manifest all your desires. Join the high vibe EMPOWERMENT, RESILIENCE, MENTAL HEALTH FOR WOMEN OVERCOMING LIFE CHALLENGES FACEBOOK GROUP: / 774152711073368 ♡ ♡ ♡ Connect With Me♡ ♡ ♡ Instagram: @kathy.mou Facebook: @kathy.mou TikTok: @kathymou Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices