Episode 85- Warning: This Man is Single and Willing to Negotiate
Wed Aug 13 2025
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In this hilarious and unfiltered episode of Mental Perk, Brandi and Karla sit down with the one and only Anthony Monnin—a 43-year-old single mechanical engineer, military veteran, and self-proclaimed non-expert in modern dating.
From dodging red flags to accidentally entertaining “nut job sister-in-laws,” Anthony brings his dry humor and honest perspective on what it’s really like to date in your 40s. Spoiler alert: there are no rules, just negotiations.
If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to re-enter the dating pool later in life—awkward apps, commitment confusion, and all—this episode is for you. Whether you're swiping right or running away, you're going to laugh, cringe, and possibly want to set Anthony up with someone.
About the Guest:
Anthony Monnin
43 & proudly singleMechanical EngineerMilitary VeteranNo dating expert—but full of storiesAccepting applications for emotionally stable (or at least entertaining) women What We Talk About:
Dating after 40: what’s changed (and what hasn’t)Red flags vs. deal breakersThe pressure of being "relationship-ready"Why ghosting should come with a citationHilarious dating mishaps and what they taught us Connect with Mental Perk: Website: www.mentalperk.org YouTube: @MentalPerk Instagram | Facebook | TikTok: @MentalPerkPodcast Like what you hear? Rate, review, and share this episode—and if you've got a nutty sister-in-law… well, Anthony’s open to suggestions.
#DatingOver40 #SingleLife #ModernDating #FunnyPodcast #VeteranVoices #DatingFails #MentalHealthMatters #RedFlagsAndAll #SwipeRight #MiddleAgedAndUnbothered #MentalPerkPodcast #PodcastLaughs #RealTalkRealPeople #VeteranDating #DatingDisasters #MentalHealthHumor #SingleAndSearching #RelationshipTalk #PodcastersOfInstagram #TexasPodcast #DatingStories
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Send us a text In this hilarious and unfiltered episode of Mental Perk, Brandi and Karla sit down with the one and only Anthony Monnin—a 43-year-old single mechanical engineer, military veteran, and self-proclaimed non-expert in modern dating. From dodging red flags to accidentally entertaining “nut job sister-in-laws,” Anthony brings his dry humor and honest perspective on what it’s really like to date in your 40s. Spoiler alert: there are no rules, just negotiations. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to re-enter the dating pool later in life—awkward apps, commitment confusion, and all—this episode is for you. Whether you're swiping right or running away, you're going to laugh, cringe, and possibly want to set Anthony up with someone. About the Guest: Anthony Monnin 43 & proudly singleMechanical EngineerMilitary VeteranNo dating expert—but full of storiesAccepting applications for emotionally stable (or at least entertaining) women What We Talk About: Dating after 40: what’s changed (and what hasn’t)Red flags vs. deal breakersThe pressure of being "relationship-ready"Why ghosting should come with a citationHilarious dating mishaps and what they taught us Connect with Mental Perk: Website: www.mentalperk.org YouTube: @MentalPerk Instagram | Facebook | TikTok: @MentalPerkPodcast Like what you hear? Rate, review, and share this episode—and if you've got a nutty sister-in-law… well, Anthony’s open to suggestions. #DatingOver40 #SingleLife #ModernDating #FunnyPodcast #VeteranVoices #DatingFails #MentalHealthMatters #RedFlagsAndAll #SwipeRight #MiddleAgedAndUnbothered #MentalPerkPodcast #PodcastLaughs #RealTalkRealPeople #VeteranDating #DatingDisasters #MentalHealthHumor #SingleAndSearching #RelationshipTalk #PodcastersOfInstagram #TexasPodcast #DatingStories Support the show If you or anyone you know are struggling with a mental health issue, suicidal thoughts, or self-harm behaviors, please reach out for help, talk to someone you trust and connect with a mental health professional. If you are in immediate danger of hurting yourself or hurting someone else, please call 911, go to your local ER or contact the national suicide hotline at 988. Mental Perk wants you to know "You're Worthy...We're in this together"