Passion Struck with John R. Miles

We are taught from the schoolyard to the boardroom that our value is a variable, something that fluctuates based on our last win, our latest promotion, or our ability to remain relentlessly productive. But what happens when the "doing" stops? In this deeply personal solo episode of Passion Struck, John R. Miles pulls back the curtain on a phenomenon he calls the "speech impediment of the soul." Drawing from a life-altering traumatic brain injury at age five and his subsequent climb through the ranks of the Navy and Fortune 50 leadership, John explores the quiet disorientation that follows when we trade our voices for safety and our existence for achievement. As we approach the February 24th launch of his new children’s book, You Matter, Luma, John reveals why mattering is the "preventative medicine" the human spirit requires to stop the cycle of over-performance and invisibility. This episode is a call to end the trade and finally reclaim a sense of worth that requires no strings attached. Passion Struck is the #1 alternative health and personal growth podcast dedicated to human flourishing and the science of mattering. It is ranked #1 on FeedSpot’s list of the Top Passion Podcasts on the Web, recognizing the show’s ongoing commitment to thoughtful, human-centered conversations. Check the full show notes here: https://passionstruck.com/healing-childhood-trauma-feeling-invisible-adult/ All links gathered here, including books, Substack, YouTube, and Start Mattering apparel: https://linktr.ee/John_R_Miles In This Episode, You Will Learn The Shattered Window: How early life trauma can rewrite your reality and create a "performance trap" that follows you into adulthood.The Speech Impediment of the Soul: Identifying the hidden whisper that tells high-achievers they only matter if they are producing.The Maximizer’s Prison: Why modern life’s obsession with optimization and "best" choices actually erodes human dignity.The Luma Truth: How to shift from mattering through achievement to mattering through existence.The Wordless Tie: Practical tools for building a profound connection with others that doesn't rely on perfect words or performance.Mattering Mirrors: Why we must decouple excellence from worth to protect the next generation (and our own inner child).The Adult Mattering Audit: Four specific questions to help you diagnose and heal your own quiet disorientation.Preventative Medicine: How the message of You Matter, Luma acts as a shield for children ages 4–8 against the optimization trap.Companion Reflection & Integration Resources Inside The Ignited Life, each episode in the You Matter series is paired with guided reflection prompts and grounding practices. These are designed to help you examine where your relationships circulate care—and where they quietly extract it—to help you move from "doing" back to "being." Explore the community: https://TheIgnitedLife.net Connect with the Ecosystem Pre-order You Matter, Luma (releasing February 24): https://youmatterluma.com/Support the Movement: https://StartMattering.comWatch on YouTube: Search for Passion Struck with John R. MilesDisclaimer The Passion Struck podcast is for educational and entertainment purposes only. The views and opinions expressed are those of the host and guests and do not necessarily reflect those of Passion Struck or its affiliates. This podcast is not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment from a licensed physician, therapist, or other qualified professional. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.