Episode 114: You Asked, I’m Answering—Big Feelings, Friendship Drama, and the Real Work of Parenting Through It
Fri Jun 20 2025
After Episode 111—“Your Kid’s Not Defiant, They’re Dysregulated”—I heard from so many of you. You asked the hard questions, the real-life ones:
“How do I support my kid when they’re left out—again?”
“What do I do when a friendship turns mean and messy?”
“How do I help my sensitive son deal with bullying and still stay himself?”
And today? I’m answering.
This episode is a no-fluff, real talk deep dive into what it actually looks like to support big-feeling kids through the emotional rollercoaster of 4th–6th grade.
We’re talking about friendship breakups, playground exclusion, emotional safety, and what happens when the adults in their world just don’t get it.
You’ll walk away with step-by-step scripts, science-backed insight, and validation for the work you’re doing—not just to raise emotionally healthy kids, but to parent in a way that heals you, too.
If you’re in the thick of it, this one’s for you.
✨ In This Episode:
Why exclusion and friendship drama in middle childhood hit so hard (for them and you)The science behind emotional safety and why “just ignore it” doesn’t workHow to support your child through bullying without toughening them upScripts for hard moments—so you’re not grasping for the right thing to sayWhy parenting differently than your partner can feel like a minefield—and how to navigate it without losing yourself💛 Ready to Go Deeper?
If this episode spoke to you and you’re ready to stop reacting and start responding with confidence and calm, you’re ready for Living CALM.
This self-paced program is where I teach you the exact tools to regulate your nervous system, co-regulate with your kids, and create a home that feels grounded, connected, and yes—more peaceful.
Join us inside Living CALM today → www.pamgodboiscoaching.com/livingcalm
📌 Resources + Links:
Join Living CALMFollow me on Instagram → @thehealingtherapistpamLooking for 1:1 support or retreats? Explore my offerings💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going:
If this episode resonated, share it with a friend, leave a review, or send me a message on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you.
Thanks for being here. You're doing big work—and you're not doing it alone.
The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude
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After Episode 111—“Your Kid’s Not Defiant, They’re Dysregulated”—I heard from so many of you. You asked the hard questions, the real-life ones: “How do I support my kid when they’re left out—again?” “What do I do when a friendship turns mean and messy?” “How do I help my sensitive son deal with bullying and still stay himself?” And today? I’m answering. This episode is a no-fluff, real talk deep dive into what it actually looks like to support big-feeling kids through the emotional rollercoaster of 4th–6th grade. We’re talking about friendship breakups, playground exclusion, emotional safety, and what happens when the adults in their world just don’t get it. You’ll walk away with step-by-step scripts, science-backed insight, and validation for the work you’re doing—not just to raise emotionally healthy kids, but to parent in a way that heals you, too. If you’re in the thick of it, this one’s for you. ✨ In This Episode: Why exclusion and friendship drama in middle childhood hit so hard (for them and you)The science behind emotional safety and why “just ignore it” doesn’t workHow to support your child through bullying without toughening them upScripts for hard moments—so you’re not grasping for the right thing to sayWhy parenting differently than your partner can feel like a minefield—and how to navigate it without losing yourself💛 Ready to Go Deeper? If this episode spoke to you and you’re ready to stop reacting and start responding with confidence and calm, you’re ready for Living CALM. This self-paced program is where I teach you the exact tools to regulate your nervous system, co-regulate with your kids, and create a home that feels grounded, connected, and yes—more peaceful. Join us inside Living CALM today → www.pamgodboiscoaching.com/livingcalm 📌 Resources + Links: Join Living CALMFollow me on Instagram → @thehealingtherapistpamLooking for 1:1 support or retreats? Explore my offerings💬 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going: If this episode resonated, share it with a friend, leave a review, or send me a message on Instagram. I love hearing what lands for you. Thanks for being here. You're doing big work—and you're not doing it alone. The best thing you can do for yourself and your kids is effectively regulate your nervous system. And a great place to start >> to wire the brain for gratitude. Research tells us that gratitude increases happiness and a peaceful mindset. Make the shift and watch how things in your life start to change. Sign up today! www.pamgodbois.com/gratitude