Emotional Boundaries: How to protect yours without guilt
Tue Jan 13 2026
Emotional boundaries shape every relationship you have — yet many people struggle to set them without feeling guilty, selfish, or afraid of conflict.
In this episode of We Are All Fine, counsellor and psychotherapist Heidi Lester explores what emotional boundaries really are, why they’re so difficult to maintain, and how they protect not just your wellbeing, but your relationships too.
This is a gentle, therapeutic conversation about learning to honour your emotional limits, recognising when your boundaries are being crossed, and finding steadiness in saying no — without shutting others out.
If you often feel emotionally drained, overwhelmed by others’ needs, or unsure where you end and someone else begins, this episode will help you reconnect with your own emotional space.
Email Heidi - heidiweareallfine@gmail.com or connect with Heidi -@heidilestercounsellor on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube and Facebook.
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Emotional boundaries shape every relationship you have — yet many people struggle to set them without feeling guilty, selfish, or afraid of conflict. In this episode of We Are All Fine, counsellor and psychotherapist Heidi Lester explores what emotional boundaries really are, why they’re so difficult to maintain, and how they protect not just your wellbeing, but your relationships too. This is a gentle, therapeutic conversation about learning to honour your emotional limits, recognising when your boundaries are being crossed, and finding steadiness in saying no — without shutting others out. If you often feel emotionally drained, overwhelmed by others’ needs, or unsure where you end and someone else begins, this episode will help you reconnect with your own emotional space. Email Heidi - heidiweareallfine@gmail.com or connect with Heidi -@heidilestercounsellor on TikTok, Instagram, YouTube and Facebook.