265: Not Every Hill Is Worth Dying On: How to Choose the Parenting Battles That Matter
Wed Feb 04 2026
If you feel exhausted from constant power struggles and unsure whether you’re being too strict or too permissive, this episode is for you. Lisa shares a simple, practical framework to help you decide which battles are worth fighting and which ones you can let go without guilt. You’ll learn how to stop wasting energy on small things, hold firm on what truly matters, and protect your connection with your kid while still being a confident leader.
What You'll Learn:
Why fighting every battle leads to burnout and weakens connectionThe 6-question framework to decide which boundaries really matterHow safety and family values should guide your parenting decisionsWhen letting something go is wisdom, not permissivenessHow developmental stages should shape your expectationsHow choosing the right battles creates calmer kids and a stronger relationshipHow to Get Your Strong-Willed Kid (Toddler to Teen) to Listen Without Yelling, Punishing, or Losing Your Mind. You’re not failing — you’re stuck in a cycle that doesn’t work.
Join this free class to learn how to break the yelling loop and lead with calm confidence.
Register today:
https://thepeacefulparent.com/class
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If you feel exhausted from constant power struggles and unsure whether you’re being too strict or too permissive, this episode is for you. Lisa shares a simple, practical framework to help you decide which battles are worth fighting and which ones you can let go without guilt. You’ll learn how to stop wasting energy on small things, hold firm on what truly matters, and protect your connection with your kid while still being a confident leader. What You'll Learn: Why fighting every battle leads to burnout and weakens connectionThe 6-question framework to decide which boundaries really matterHow safety and family values should guide your parenting decisionsWhen letting something go is wisdom, not permissivenessHow developmental stages should shape your expectationsHow choosing the right battles creates calmer kids and a stronger relationshipHow to Get Your Strong-Willed Kid (Toddler to Teen) to Listen Without Yelling, Punishing, or Losing Your Mind. You’re not failing — you’re stuck in a cycle that doesn’t work. Join this free class to learn how to break the yelling loop and lead with calm confidence. Register today: https://thepeacefulparent.com/class