EP 44: Westley Baer on Life After Love Is Blind, Faith, and Becoming a Grounded Man
Tue Jan 27 2026
In this episode, I sit down with Westley Baer from Love Is Blind season one to talk about what happens after the cameras turn off.
We explore Westley’s dating life before the show, his experience navigating Love Is Blind, and what it was like coming to terms with the end of that chapter. From there, the conversation moves into the deeper work. The love letter he wrote to himself, his experience with coaching, a six month solo journey through the Southeast, and what shifted when he chose to step away from dating and focus inward.
We also talk about faith and how it became a grounding force in Westley’s life, shaping not only who he is as a man but what he now looks for in partnership. And finally, we dive into men’s work. Vulnerability, emotional growth, and why so many men feel disconnected from themselves, their relationships, and each other.
This is an honest, reflective conversation about growth, faith, and becoming more intentional in how we show up in love and in life.
Connect with Westley
https://www.instagram.com/westleybaer/
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Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit.
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In this episode, I sit down with Westley Baer from Love Is Blind season one to talk about what happens after the cameras turn off. We explore Westley’s dating life before the show, his experience navigating Love Is Blind, and what it was like coming to terms with the end of that chapter. From there, the conversation moves into the deeper work. The love letter he wrote to himself, his experience with coaching, a six month solo journey through the Southeast, and what shifted when he chose to step away from dating and focus inward. We also talk about faith and how it became a grounding force in Westley’s life, shaping not only who he is as a man but what he now looks for in partnership. And finally, we dive into men’s work. Vulnerability, emotional growth, and why so many men feel disconnected from themselves, their relationships, and each other. This is an honest, reflective conversation about growth, faith, and becoming more intentional in how we show up in love and in life. Connect with Westley https://www.instagram.com/westleybaer/ 1:1 Coaching with Beatrice Dating and relationships can bring up confusion, self doubt, or emotional activation, even for people who are thoughtful, self aware, and growth oriented. When the same patterns keep repeating, it’s often a sign something deeper is asking for attention. I work one on one with people navigating this, helping them build the emotional security and clarity needed for healthy, aligned relationships. If you’re curious about working together, you can book a call through the link below we’ll see if it’s the right fit. Book a Call Instagram:@letstalkrelationships_ Website: https://www.theltrpodcast.com/